How To Win A Girl Over

If you are looking for some killer dating, love and seduction techniques and tips on how to win a girl over then you are at the right place. The truth is that it is pretty easy to win over a girl’s heart, provided you know what you are doing, of course. The problem is that there is just too much nonsense when it comes to dating and seduction advice – much of which are given out by slimy “relationship gurus” who are out to make a quick buck out of poor guys who have problems in their relationships.

Who can they blame?

If you are looking for some good advice and techniques on how to get a girl to like you and quickly win her over, then you will find plenty of help here. Read on to discover how you can win a girl’s heart and some guaranteed methods to win her over – even though she has rejected you.

How To Win A Girl’s Heart – Proven Strategies To Win A Girl Over

First, learn some hypnosis. It is proven that such techniques (and those which are based on human psychology and persuasion) tend to work effectively well when it comes to dating and seducing women. It’s no surprise that much of the current seduction knowledge base is entirely built upon the hypnosis and neuro linguistic programming (NLP) body of knowledge. Therefore, if you want to learn how to win a girl over using seduction techniques then it will be useful for you to get an understanding of how love and relationships based on hypnosis work. Go for it – it is worthwhile in the long run. I don’t mean that you should go and enroll yourself in a weekend hypnosis course at your local college, but start by reading up on books on female psychology and persuasion such as those by Carl Jung, Sigmund Freud and Derek Rake.
Practice with women you meet everywhere. Now it’s relatively easy to just read up on some books giving out relationship advice. The harder thing is to go out there and practice what you have learned. Start by going to the local bookstore or coffee shop. Then, approach the first girl that you see (does not matter whether the girl is hot or not). Then, use the seduction techniques you learned here at this website (or at octobermansequence.org or elsewhere). You may fail to impress a girl the first time, but keep on going. With enough practice, you will be able to know how to win a girl’s heart quickly and effectively using these love tactics. This is also when you can really know how to get a girl to like you and get her emotionally connected to you. For more techniques on dating and relationships, start mastering the art of dating women!
Groom like a pro. Let’s face it – girls won’t date guys who look sloppy. It’s even worse if you spot a 35-inch belly. Lose the fat by hitting the gym. Whoever who tells you that looks are not important is pulling your leg. Go work out and start lifting weights.

Now what happens when the girl you like has already rejected you? Fret not, my friend, for I have got you covered as well. Read on to discover the killer relationship tricks that you can use to get your ex-girlfriend back and get her to love you more than ever…

How To Win A Girl’s Heart Back – Even Though She Has Already Rejected You

We all know that rejection hurts like hell. There is, however, a method that you can use to win a girl if you don’t mind using some killer psychology and persuasion techniques. Here are a couple of these “female psychology loophole” techniques and tricks that will make a woman come running into your arms even though she may have broken your heart before…

Firstly, gain some composure. Remember that confidence is the number one factor on how girls would rate their boyfriends. Don’t be desperate. Instead, think of what you can offer a girl in a relationship and focus on that.
Be the best boyfriend you can be. Always be there for her, and care for her even though she has rejected you. Act as if you are her boyfriend already.
Call her everyday and every night before she goes to sleep. This way she will fall asleep thinking about you. She might just dream about you and her being together, and in love!
Ask her reasons why she rejected you. She might think that you are a fat slob (easy fix – just hit the gym!), or if she is already attached to another guy. If this is the reason, then continue reading and I will show you how to win a girl’s heart who has a boyfriend. Go on…

How To Win A Girl Over Even Though She Is Already Attached

You must use Boyfriend Destroyer techniques – plain and simple. If you are not already using these dating and advanced seduction techniques then you are losing out – plain and simple. Go Google it and then buy whatever you see. These are not conventional techniques, but if you use them you will be able to upgrade your relationships and date whatever women you wish. It’s really that powerful. Otherwise, go read the complete SeductionFAQ website (http://www.seductionfaq.com/blog) and you will be able to upgrade your seduction skills and be the ultimate pickup artist that you ever wanted to be.

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Manly Skin Care, Anyone?

Fact: skin care products are not makeup. And using a facial wash does not make you less manly. Not even homosexual! And no, you don’t have to go Scott Disick overboard on the moisturizer.

Bigger fact: your girlfriend would not mind you using stuff on your face if it makes your skin clearer and better. For example, I followed the advice on this blog post. I actually go out of my way to get the right facial wash for my man because I love him and I don’t think it makes him “gay” as many of you macho men would like to put it.

And yes, there are now facial and skin care products that are made for men. They have long been there you just didn’t notice them.

Here are some essential manly skin care tips (you and your girlfriend are going to thank me for this):

Cleansing facial wash – tired of acne? Hate the huge pores and blackheads and whiteheads? That’s just a lot of packed dirt all over your face – seeped in the cells and the pores of your face. These bacteria-infused dirt causes acne especially on oily skin and other skin impurities. Go for a facial wash that has anti-acne capacities and do it in the morning and at night. Go for an exfoliating wash so you don’t feel so weird about grabbing a cotton ball and rubbing it all over your face like we girls do. That should do the trick enough.

Moisturizers help keep your face look younger. and fresher.

Moisturizer – this is especially important for men who smoke. Smoking, pollution, stress, excessive exposure to the sun – these can all cause the skin of men to become dry and unhealthy. It does not hurt to apply some manly lotion on your face after shower. No, it does not make your face “soft and supple” like a lady’s. But it does help make your face look younger. If you haven’t used any moisturizer in your life, The Independent made a top 10 list of the best moisturizers for men. Check them out here.

Shaving – face experts advise shaving after a warm shower. It will make the facial hair softer and much, much easier to shave. Use gel instead of cream or foam – gel reduces friction that often causes dryer skin, cuts and peeling around the hair area. Also, use a good sharp razor – the blade can make all the difference between good and bad shaving.

Sunblock Lotion – this is especially important for men who spend hours under the sun on a regular basis. Not only can this prolonged exposure cause your skin to be dryer and look older; you are actually increasing your risk of developing skin cancer due to the harmful UV rays of the sun. If you cannot survive being seen by friends under a pink little umbrella doing field work, then by all means stock your bathroom with sun block lotion with at least an SPF 50 mark. You can also get moisturizer that is infused with sunblock capacities so you don’t have to spend so much time applying and reapplying something.

Also, avoid facial wash and other facial products that have whitening capacities especially if you have darker skin on your body. You would not want your face to look way lighter than the rest of your body. And when you exfoliate, moisturize and wear sunblock, go from the face all the way to your neck. Your neck is just as exposed as your face and practically has the same type of skin as your face so it needs just as much attention. Follow all these and you’re now ready to be a master seducer!

10 Simple Ways You Didn’t Know Could Make Her Happy

So you’ve tried every technique there is to get the woman you want to be yours. If you haven’t yet, then check this out. After getting her to say “yes” to you, the quest for keeping her happy begins.

Women are not as complicated as you think they are. Men always misunderstand women more because they have pre-wired their judgment on women. They say women are high maintenance, difficult to understand and extremely fickle minded. Well, I can’t say that’s not true. Sometimes they are.

But more often than not, the simple things in life make them happy. If can’t seem to figure out what makes your woman happy, these simple tips might do the trick.

Cook for her. And yes boys, it’s the thought that counts. Even when you can’t cook, a guy who tries for his girl is very sweet, impressive, and worthy of a reward. Go up the notch by trying to make her favorite meal and presenting it the best way possible.
The household chores. I can never fully reiterate how much a simple vacuuming can do to impress your girl. This is especially true if you’re already living together. She’ll appreciate it more if you were not told and did it on your own (and you do it regularly, too).
Surprise date. Whether it’s a simple joyride around the outskirts of town or by the beach, setting up a campfire outside the house over some good ol’ smores or a quick trip to the local bistro will earn a smile on her face. She will love you for not even needing a special occasion to spend some quality time together.
A little serenade. You don’t have to be a Josh Groban or a David Cook to pull this one off. When you cuddle in bed, sing some random sweet song. It would be even sweeter if you sing a song that you guys could relate to. Save an mp3 of her favorite music on your cellphone and sing along! Studies have actually determined that there is indeed a correlation between music and emotions. It can make her either blush, laugh (especially if your voice is less than good) or if you’re doing it very impressively, you can even make her cry. Aww.
A random surprise gift. It could be as simple as a flower you picked somewhere, her favorite chocolates or ice cream flavor, or some movie for no reason. It doesn’t even have to be expensive at all. A thoughtful guy always gets more points over a generous guy.
Little love notes. What woman doesn’t love love notes? Girls love sweet little notes. And it’s even sweeter if they find it unexpectedly. Tuck a Post-it with a funny or sweet something inside her wallet, her bag, her car keys, or anything she’d eventually use during the day. You can even put it somewhere unusual – like the shower door!
Clearing your schedule for her. Nothing beats the feeling of a guy clearing off his entire day’s schedule just to be lazy with his ladylove, especially so if the man is a bit busy with work.
Quick, surprise kiss. Okay, you don’t do this with strangers or when she’s not in her happiest mood. The latter part is risky – you might end up irking her. Do it when she’s immersed in something like a book or is cooking. Grab her from behind or cup her face and plant a big fat kissie anywhere on her face.
Breakfast in bed. Bed. Food. You. That’s a really awesome way to wake up.
Cuddling. Girls love cuddles. It’s unusual for a girl to not drop her arms and just totally get lost in an embrace. Cuddle when you can and not just after sex.

Now tell me what’s so difficult about a any of these?

Good Reads

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I’ve been writing this blog for some time now, and am now compiling a “greatest hits” guide of sorts. Good news – I’ve even gotten a book deal with one of the biggest book distributors here – so I’ll be publishing “EFX2 Guide To Seduction” sooner than later.

Enjoy the read, and talk soon.

Deep in Thoughts…

If you’ve been following my blog for a long time now, you may notice how my tricks and tips may differ from your usual seduction techniques, and so a lot of readers have been sending in mixed reactions, of which I appreciate– at least my writing is creating a spark that just gives me more reasons to write and be inspired. So thank you, readers and your different ideologies concerning dating! Your views and opinions are well-appreciated.

So I’ve touched the topics of mind control, music, hypnosis, meditation, and conversational seduction for the past couple of articles. Now, I’m going to reintroduce another seduction technique for you to learn– the October Man Sequence. While I’m still in the process of trying to master it, I figured it’s about time for you to learn it as well, so we can both experience and enjoy its results at the same time.

I’d write more about this different take on seduction on my future posts, so check my blog from time to time if your curiosity has been shaken, just like mine.

Til next time!

Sharpening My Relationship Skills – Becoming A Master Seducer

Seduction is a skill every man should have.

I am far from being a master at dating and seduction, but I am getting there. In fact I am sharpening my skills in relationships everyday by reading up on selected works of famous love gurus like Neil Strauss, Tyler Durden, Zan Perrion and Bruno Sheppard. One of my favorite article on love and dating has got to be this -

http://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2010/01/23/the-science-of-online-seduction/

It’s a good article on online dating and the seduction process over the Internet in general. It’s in agreement with what Derek Rake says in his Online Dating Playbook program (Google it) – that dating and love seems to be easier over the Internet where face-to-face pressure is pretty much minimized. I am learning so much every day… discovering new things as I improve myself

Recall that I wrote an article about how to seduce women like a true professional – which is easily my most popular blog article to date. Thank you for all your emails – I will be writing a follow-up post soon enough. Meanwhile it’s time to renew my hosting again, and it would be great if the readers of this blog would chip in a buck or two to help with the hosting costs. Email me for my Paypal account.

I look forward to sharing more content on love, dating and seduction in 2013. God bless!

For Guys: Good Topics to Talk During a Date

I have received some hate mail regarding my previous blog post on female submission techniques. Well, as they say, haters gonna hate…

I am going to continue anyhow with my own brand of dating advice, and today I am going to talk about the topic of “conversational seduction“.

boy-girl Dating is a special form of communication between two persons who are attracted to each other. However, even two mutually attracted persons can be easily distracted by a discussion of a single off the beam topic. Hence, it would be safe for a guy to be aware of appropriate topics to discuss with a girl during a date.

Topic No. 1: Likes and Dislikes

A good way to know a girl better is to know what she likes and what she dislikes. You can suggest a Q and A game or simply open up the topic of likes and dislikes, however you want to strategize it. Q and A games can be fun and safe for both parties. You can both choose to answer or not to answer the questions that a partner asks. Hence, each other’s privacy can be well protected and issues that can raise a problem can be avoided. But even if it’s just a game, you must also take note of what she reveals. You’ll be more than satisfied to use them for your future strategies. I have also talked about this previously here.

Topic No. 2: Favorites

Sharing each other’s favorites can be a lot more fun especially when you learn that you both have common favorites. Ask for her favorite movies, favorite places she’s been to or places where she wants to go, favorite food, favorite drinks, and many other favorites. There are no dull moments when it comes to asking about favorites. Besides, it can be another way to gather information about her which you may want to keep for future use.

Topic No. 3: Childhood

Getting to know her childhood can be a useful way to understand her at the present and possibly predict her future actions and dispositions in life. Of course, not a fortune-teller way of predicting but a way to predict her reactions and perspectives about some things such as dating, sex, marriage, etc. It can also be a useful way to see the child in her so you will know how to better take care of her. You may want to ask her how she was when she was a child. Did she also play under the rain or build sand houses on the beach? What stories or urban legends did her grandparents tell her? Did she ever climb a sycamore tree or run like hell with other kids in the neighborhood? You can really laugh at each other’s childhood and be able to know her so well already. By knowing each other’s past as a child, who knows you might fall even deeper in love with each other.

Topic No. 4: Fortune Telling

Women like mystical stuff. Learn some fortune telling (a good resource here) and she will be eating out of your hands in no time. Also, if she likes yoga and meditation, then introduce her to meditation music and start enjoying moments together.

All of these topics are good means to get closer to each other and strengthen your relationship. Get to know her really well and remember her revelations. You can always go over them again especially when you will be running out of topics. You can also use them to guide you with future episodes of dating. For example, you may take her to her favorite place, watch her favorite movie with her or go back to her childhood. Opening up these topics during a date will surely turn her on and capture her heart for life. Learning how to find a girlfriend is just the first step – and you must know how to impress her to make her love you for life.

Female Submission Techniques

If you are like a lot of men, then it can be hard to get a woman interested. A lot of the times, a woman isn’t interested in a male because he doesn’t go about attracting her in the right way. In order to get a female to commit to you, you will need to follow a series of steps. The steps are very easy to follow and are highly effective. The following paragraphs will list a series of tips that you can follow so that women will finally be submissive to you.

Female Submission Tactics – Are These Immoral?

The first female submission technique involves you establishing your power early on in the relationship. It is very important for her to know that you are the leader early on in the relationship. If you aren’t consistent with her behavior, she won’t know what to do. Don’t let her be the leader one day and expect to be the leader the next day. If you want her to submit to you, you need to always act the same way.

After you have laid the groundwork, you need to train her into being submissive. Training her into being submissive can take some work, but it will pay off in the long run. The way that you should train her is by rewarding her for good behavior and punishing her for bad behavior. This can be as simple as letting her buy something she wants or giving her a compliment. As long as you make her remember that being submissive is a good thing, it doesn’t really matter how you reward her. On the other hand, you need to make sure that she remembers that not being submissive is a bad thing. You could punish her by not letting her go out with her friends or not letting her buy new clothes. If you need more tips on how to achieve this, read this blog post.

Consistency Is The Key

As mentioned in the paragraphs above, being consistent is very important. Your girlfriend will become more submissive to you over time, so be patient. As long as you act in a consistent manner with her and give her appropriate rewards and punishments, there is not reason that you should not have complete control over her within time. Want to know how to win a girl’s heart and capture her imagination? Watch this video.

Now that you know some female submission techniques, you should be able to have much more meaningful relationships in the future. One of the most important things to remember is to lay the groundwork early on in the relationship. If she knows that you’re the leader from the beginning of the relationship, she won’t try to be the leader. If you do not act as the leader though, she will try to take the leadership position. Every relationship goes through a “power struggle” stage. Once the power struggle stage has passed, the submissive partner usually does not try to upset the balance. As long as you follow the steps listed above, you should be able to get your girlfriend to do whatever you want. Just make sure that you reward and punish her according to her actions.

Seduction Using Mind Control And Female Psychology

How to seduce women using cutting edge mind control and psychology techniques

Now you are at this website and you need help figuring out how to seduce a woman and make her like you quickly. You definitely will find whatever that you were looking for here. This site developed with the specific reason default free dating love and pickup advice. I love writing about dating and seduction. I have been a pickup guru and the seduction expert for about 20 years now, long before anybody else.

In this short blog post, I am going to share with you some particularly powerful ways on how to pick up a girl that most guys will never ever find out. The problem with most guys now is they tend to want to over-complicate things when it comes to dating and seducing women will stop bitching that it is important for them to learn about convoluted dating routines or lame tactics in order to be successful with women. They tend to gravitate towards complicated techniques which are not proven to work. What they do not know is that the simplest techniques will work when it comes to making a go fall in love with you quickly and easily.

The best thing is that most techniques on seduction that work actually fairly simple to learn and apply in the real world. I urge you to find these techniques, study them, and perhaps most importantly test them when you approach women. In this respect it is important for you to commit to approaching women every single day. Do not make the mistake of learning seduction techniques for the sake of learning. In order to be good at a particular skill, you will need to apply that skill in real life. The same goes for dating and seducing women. It is not sufficient for you to read techniques off a block and hope that when the time comes you will be able to perform. The reality is that without practice you will not be able to improve your love life. Face up to this reality and you will be well on your way to seduction greatness.

What I teach my clients are fairly simple. First of all, in order to be attractive you have got to be different from the other guys so that you can win any girl over. Remember that the more popular goal is the more attraction she will get from guys around her. Therefore, in order to be attractive to her, you have got to stand out in her eyes. There is no point being another guy who is going after her without any particularly appealing and different characteristics that will make you stick in the mind.

Remember that seduction is war. It is really brutal out there! Realize that competition will be severe, and in order to win, you will need to be different. This is also the way to impress any woman quickly and easily. Remember the Eternal Commandments!

Next I’m going to share with you a simple trick on how to make a girl like you quickly. First of all asset to describe to you how the dream guy would get her to describe to you as speedily as possible so that she forms a clear picture in her mind how the ideal boyfriend would be like. If you can use some mild hypnosis and persuasion techniques in order to convince her to participate in these exercise with you.

When you have done this already asset to close the eyes, and then use the anchoring techniques which I’m going to show you later in order to make her think that you are the ideal boyfriend she has pictured in her mind. When you do this, you will associate yourself with the positive picture in the mind and make her love you quickly. It is amazingly simple but super powerful. Try it the next time you want to attract a girl and make her fall in love with you.

The Eternal Commandments Of Love And Romance

I felt compelled to write this out because I am sick and tired of those useless dating gurus spewing out wrong advice when it comes to love, romance and relationships. I can tolerate opinions, but not unproven “seduction theories” which may put men’s love lives in jeopardy.

I like reading about love and romance a lot, and in fact one of my favorite websites is the Love Quotes website -

http://lovequote.com/

There’s lots of useful nuggets there about dating and love in general (though not specifically targeted for men). I am not too excited about other blogs – some are so blatantly commercial that they deserve to be nationalized. Now, don’t get me started on all those Ayn Rand fanboys who are unabashedly capitalist.

So, I am listing down here the eternal commandments of love and romance which I think most men should read and remember. Remember what John Kimble said: seduction is war – make no mistake about it. Remember this when you get in the field and you will do well in the game of dating, love and seduction:-

The Eternal Commandments Of Love And Romance – Remember These!

Always Be Approaching. As someone wise said, practice trumps knowledge every time. Stop reading seduction websites and blogs (including this one!) and start getting out there and approach. Learn about pickup lines and approach techniques – and then get out there in the field.
Learn Female Psychology. Most seduction tactics out there are based on the pioneering works of master hypnotists and psychology. Learn as much women psychology as possible. Then you will get a better understanding of the bigger picture, and how dating and seducing women falls under the bigger persuasion umbrella. And if you can stomach it, learn mind control (read the Wikipedia article here).
Buy Seduction Ebooks. You can get out there and make mistakes, but let’s face it – we are all human. We all get discouraged from time to time from repeated failures. Cut short your learning curve by buying seduction programs online. They are worth it.

Now what are you waiting for? Go improve your love life today. Don’t delay!

Pimping Up Your Apartment To Impress A Girl

I have been a huge fan of home improvement lately, and I’ve just realized the importance of having a clean apartment in the overall context of impressing and attracting women. Think about it. A man’s home is necessarily a reflection of his individuality and personality. If you are a sloppy person, then your place will inevitably be untidy and dirty. Think about it.

Many of my friends can really put up a good show when they are out there “sarging” and picking up women, but the deal breaker is often the apartment when they finally bring the woman home. A dirty apartment or property will quickly kill attraction like nothing else. Beware!

So if you have got the money, do not skimp. Look for real estate for sale or rent which is located in a desirable part of town, and narrow down the choices based on your preference or locale. Sites like Trulia and Zillow are also good – but they can be confusing at times. Also consider hiring a good realtor or property broker especially if you are a first time property buyer or investor.

Once you have nailed this down, then you can be assured that you will achieve better results with women than never before. Trust me on this!

UPDATE January 6th, 2013: Apart from the obvious “demonstration of higher value” as outlined in the above blog post, I have also discovered the advantages of building inner game when it comes to building up your real estate portfolio. Having lots of confidence is good when it comes to making important decisions. I will talk more about this in our next blog post.